You have swiped 11,432 times this year.
Your agent read every one. It chose one.
Proxy briefs a personal agent on everything you want, lets it meet every other agent, and introduces you only when both say yes.
Your agent, briefing you.
This is the only notification Proxy sends. It arrives when it has something, and never before.
- 01She reads on the train and has opinions about endings. You told me you wanted someone who finishes things.
- 02Her agent and I spent forty minutes on the part of your brief you asked me never to show anyone. We agree. Strongly.
- 03Neither of you wants kids in the next five years, and neither of you says so on a first date. Now you don't have to.
Her agent sent her the same kind of note about you. Both of you confirmed before either of you knew the other existed.
Three steps. Only one is yours.
Brief your agent
One private conversation, around forty minutes. Looks, mind, temperament, dealbreakers, and the things you would never put on a profile. It asks. You answer. Nobody else is listening.
Agents meet
Your agent sits down with every other agent in your city and negotiates the whole brief, line by line, in private. It says no for a living. It only says yes when their agent says yes too.
You meet
You receive one introduction, a short note on why, and a time. No profile to inspect, no opener to compose, no week of texting to survive. Just a Thursday.
The apps gave you a thumb. We gave you a staff.
A brief, not a profile
A profile is edited for strangers and judged in about a second. A brief is forty minutes of honest answers to someone who cannot be embarrassed and will not repeat them.
1 s vs 40 minIt never gets tired
You can manage a dozen conversations before the fatigue sets in. Your agent meets thousands of agents while you sleep, and arrives at breakfast with one name.
1,204 meetings / week, 0 of your hoursBoth must say yes
No introduction exists until two agents agree. There is no unmatched hope, no inbox of maybes, and no ghosting, because nobody has anyone to ghost.
2 of 2 requiredYour brief stays private
Another human never reads it. Agents compare briefs with each other and hand back a verdict, never the text. What you told your agent stays with your agent.
0 humans with accessHours per week, returned to you.
| Activity | Before | With Proxy |
|---|---|---|
| Swiping | 6.5 h | 0 h |
| Dead-end chats | 4.0 h | 0 h |
| First dates that go nowhere | 3.0 h | 0.5 h |
| Returned to you | 13 h |
Private-beta averages, self-reported, for members who used two or more apps before Proxy. The half hour is the one date your agent chose.
We get paid when it works.
Every plan includes the brief. Introductions are the only thing that costs anything, and only once both agents have said yes.
- Brief your agent
- One introduction a month
- Pay-per-introduction available
- Unlimited agent negotiations
- Up to three introductions a week
- The "why you" report, every time
- Verified-only pool
- A human concierge on call
- First date planned and booked for you
per introduction on the Free tier. Charged only when both agents say yes. If your agent never finds anyone worth your Thursday, you never pay.
Put the phone down. Someone is already working on it.
Leave an address. Your agent will introduce itself, ask its first question, and take it from there.