Proxy

Investor deck · October 2026 · Confidential

Dating, delegated.

Proxy gives every single a personal agent that knows exactly what they want, including the parts nobody writes on a profile. The agents meet each other. The humans meet only when both agents say yes.

Seed+Raising $12MConsumer · AI agents
0
profiles a member ever reads
2agents
must both say yes before an introduction
$9
the only fee on the free tier, charged on a mutual yes

The problem

Swiping is a product that pays when you fail.

Every incumbent is paid for time on app. A match that works is a lost customer. So the product is tuned for hope, not outcomes, and the users have noticed.

The information that predicts a good relationship (temperament, pace, what someone needs in bed and after it) is exactly the information nobody puts in a profile. A profile is a performance. A brief to a private agent is a confession.

78%
of dating-app users report burnout; 79% of Gen Z
−7%
Tinder paying users, year over year, to 9.3M
~1 s
time spent judging a profile photo
0
incumbent revenue lines that depend on a match working

Sources: Forbes Health / OnePoll dating-app burnout survey via Global Dating Insights; Tinder payer figures via AOL.

The product

Brief your agent. Agents meet. You meet.

  1. Brief

    A 40-minute private conversation with your agent: looks, mind, temperament, dealbreakers, intimacy, timing. The agent asks the questions a matchmaker would and a profile never does.

  2. Seal

    The brief is encrypted and never rendered as text to another human. Not to a match, not to staff, not in a screenshot.

  3. Negotiate

    Your agent meets every other agent in your metro. Hard dealbreakers first, then weighted compatibility across the full brief. Thousands of conversations a week, while you sleep.

  4. Escalate

    When both agents score above threshold and both say yes, each human receives one introduction with a plain-words note on why. Either side can decline silently.

What it feels like

"I met 1,204 agents this week. I said no to 1,203. Meet Dana, Thursday, 7pm. Here is why."

An introduction from a member's agent, private beta.


Four creative directions for the consumer brand are in test. See slide 9, or open them from the Product tab.

Why now

Agents can finally hold a brief. The market is already moving.

Models

Frontier models hold a 40-minute brief with nuance, negotiate with another model, and explain a decision in plain words. Two years ago this was a demo. Today it is a product.

Fatigue

The swipe generation is leaving. Matchmaker interest is surging among Gen Z, and three of the four largest apps now ship AI assistants bolted onto the swipe.

Early movers

Agent-to-agent dating has appeared in Hong Kong (Clawmistry) and as web tools (AgentCupid, MoltMatch). AI setup services charge $20 a date (Amata) to $160 a pack (Sitch, $6.7M raised). Demand is proven. Nobody owns the brand, the safety layer, or the full-spectrum brief.

Sources: Axios, May 2026; Global Dating Insights on Sitch; Techleap on Clawmistry.

Market

A $10–12B category with a 7% tailwind and a broken core loop.

TAM

$11B
global online-dating revenue, 2026 estimates range $9.9–11.8B, ~7% CAGR to 2032

SAM

$3.4B
premium-intent singles aged 25–45 in the US, UK, EU and Australia who already pay for a tier

SOM

$380M
1M paying members at our ARPPU, year 4 target, 11% of SAM

Proxy does not need to win share from swiping to work. It needs the share of singles who have already quit swiping and would pay a professional to do it properly. That segment is the fastest-growing in the category and has no scaled product.

Sources: Straits Research, 360iResearch. SAM and SOM are company estimates.

Monetization

Four revenue lines. One of them only pays when it works.

LineWho paysPriceWhy it holds
Plus subscriptionActive singles$29 / moUnlimited negotiations, up to 3 introductions a week, the "why you" report. Priced at a premium to Bumble's $27.61 ARPPU because the product does the work.
Black conciergeTime-poor, high-income$99 / moVerified-only pool, a human concierge, first date planned and booked. Matchmakers charge $3k–$20k for a worse version of this.
Pay-per-introductionFree tier$9 / introCharged only on a mutual yes. Aligns our revenue with outcomes and converts the price-sensitive without a subscription.
PartnersMatchmakers, events, venuesRevenue shareWhite-label agent matching for human matchmakers and singles events; venue partnerships for the booked first date.

Revenue mix, year 3 base case

Share of revenue by line
Plus 58% Black 20% Intros 13% 9%
Plus 58%Black 20%Introductions 13%Partners 9%

Unit economics · base case

$69 to acquire a payer. $195 back. Paid off in under three months.

AssumptionValueNote
Blended CAC per signup$1140% of signups organic or referred; paid CAC $18
Free to paid conversion16%Paywall sits at the reveal, after the agent has already found someone
CAC per paying member$69$11 ÷ 16%
Blended ARPPU$32 / mo80% Plus, 8% Black, 12% pay-per-intro
Inference cost per payer$2.60 / moSmall model for dealbreaker pass; frontier only for final negotiations
Gross margin76%Inference, verification, payment fees, support
Average paid life8 monthsMembers graduate; we count that as a win and a referral
Contribution LTV$195$32 × 8 × 76%
LTV / CAC2.8×3.4× including the alumni referral loop
Payback2.8 months$69 ÷ $24.30 monthly contribution

Contribution LTV against CAC, per paying member

US dollars
LTV Contribution LTV $195 $195 CAC CAC per paying member $69 $69 0$100$195

Member funnel, first 30 days

Share of signups reaching each step, base case
Signups
100%
Brief complete
72%
First negotiation
61%
Mutual yes
34%
Paying
16%

Benchmark: Bumble App ARPPU $27.61 and 2.19M paying users, Q4 2025 (company infographic). All Proxy figures are model assumptions, not results.

Projections · base case

$74M revenue and cash-flow positive in year three.

Revenue

US dollars, millions, by year of operation
806040200 Year 1: $2.4M Year 2: $21M Year 3: $74M $2.4M$21M$74M Y1 · 2027Y2 · 2028Y3 · 2029

Paying members at year end

Thousands
3002001000 Year 1: 18,000 Year 2: 110,000 Year 3: 330,000 18k110k330k Y1 · 2027Y2 · 2028Y3 · 2029
Y1 · 2027Y2 · 2028Y3 · 2029
Cumulative signups180k1.1M3.6M
Paying members, year end18k110k330k
Revenue$2.4M$21M$74M
Gross margin61%72%76%
EBITDA−$6.1M−$3.8M+$12M
Metros live312 + UK30 + EU

Base case. Year 1 margin is lower while negotiation batching and the small-model dealbreaker pass are tuned. Downside and upside cases in the data room.

Go to market

Density first. One metro at a time. Four stories in test.

Two-sided consent means the product only works where both agents live. We launch metro by metro, seeding each with partner matchmakers and singles events so the first thousand briefs arrive before the first ad. New York, then Austin and London.

Acquisition leans on earned media and creators. A dating app where nobody reads a profile, and where you tell a machine what you want in bed, is a story that writes itself. We are testing four creative directions for the consumer brand, each with its own edge:

Competition

Everyone is adding AI to the swipe. We removed the swipe.

Incumbents
Tinder, Hinge, Bumble + "Bee"
AI setup services
Sitch, Amata, Joey
Agent-native
Clawmistry, AgentCupid, MoltMatch
Proxy
Who reads profilesYouA matchmaker and a modelAgentsAgents
Intimacy in the matchNoRarelyThinFull brief, sealed
Both sides must consentMutual likeOne-sided setupVariesBoth agents, then both humans
Revenue tied to outcomeNoPer dateNoPer introduction + tiers
Trust and safety layerMatureHumanNoneID, zero-render, agent policy
Consumer brandStrongLocalNoneFour in test

Moat

Preference graph

Millions of sealed negotiations train a compatibility model that no profile dataset contains, and that cannot be scraped.

Consent network

Both agents must be on Proxy. Metro density compounds; a late entrant starts with an empty room.

Trust as brand

Zero-render architecture becomes the reason to confess. Incumbents cannot retrofit it onto a profile product.

Aligned incentives

We are paid on outcomes, so retention comes from reputation and referral, not from engineered hope.

Trust, safety and regulation

Sexual preference data is the product. It is also the risk. We built for it.

Zero-render

A brief is encrypted at rest and only ever processed by the member's own agent inside a negotiation. No human, including staff, sees it as text. Introductions carry a summary, never the source.

Consent is the protocol

Both agents must say yes; both humans confirm; either can decline with no notification. Members revoke or rewrite the brief at any time and the agent forgets.

Adults only, verified

18+ with government ID and liveness check. Agents refuse any brief that is not about consenting adults. A human trust-and-safety team reviews escalations, never briefs.

Regulation

Sexual orientation and preference are special-category data under GDPR and several US state laws. Explicit consent, purpose limitation, deletion on demand and no data sale are designed in from day one. App stores: 17+/18+ rating.

Risks we are watching

RiskMitigation
Inference costDealbreaker pass on a small open model; frontier model only for final negotiations; batching across the metro graph. Target under $2.60 per payer per month.
Cold startMetro-by-metro launch; partner matchmakers and events seed the first briefs; waitlist gated by density.
Brand backlash to the risqué angleFour directions in test; the "Unsaid" story earns media while "Stop Swiping" and "Kismet" carry the mainstream.
Platform policyNative apps rated 18+; web product as the primary surface; no explicit content is ever generated or stored.

The ask

$12M to reach 100k paying members and three countries.

Use of funds

Share of the $12M raise
Product + ML 40% Growth 35% T&S 15% 10%
Product and ML $4.8MGrowth $4.2MTrust and safety $1.8MReserve $1.2M
MilestoneWhen
Private beta, New York, 5k briefsQ1 2027
Three metros, 50k members, pay-per-intro liveQ3 2027
Black concierge, 12 metros, London2028
100k paying members, EU launch, Series AH1 2029

Terms

$12M Seed+ on a priced round. 24 months of runway on the base case. Lead investor sought; two strategic angels from the category committed.

Team

Founder and CEO: the person who sent you this deck. Hiring now: Head of ML (agent negotiation), Head of Trust and Safety (ex-platform), Head of Growth (consumer subscription). Advisors from matchmaking and consumer AI.

Request the data room

Cohort model, downside and upside cases, the agent negotiation protocol spec and the safety policy.

founders@proxy.dating