Your proxy knows what a first date doesn't.
There are things that matter to you that you would never bring up over a first drink. Your proxy carries them. Theirs carries theirs. They compare, in private, and you meet when both are satisfied.
Private beta · 18+ · ID-verified · Nobody reads a profile here.
What it carries
What a first date doesn't say.
These are the details that decide whether there is a third date. Most people keep them for later, and later is where it falls apart. Your proxy carries them from the start, compares them with theirs in private, and never repeats your words. Their proxy hears a verdict, not a sentence.
Eight lines from one member's brief, private beta, with permission. Yours will be different.
- What you told your proxyFirst dateYour proxy
- Wants children, but not before 35.✗✓
- Needs an hour alone after work, every day.✗✓
- Sober three years. Not negotiable.✗✓
- Still pays off a degree. Has a plan.✗✓
- Slow, then not.✗✓
- Would move cities for the right person. Once.✗✓
- Anxious when plans change late.✗✓
- Wants to be asked, not told.✗✓
Compared with theirs. Six aligned, two close enough. Thursday.Both proxies: yes
How it works
Three steps. You are present for one.
Brief your proxy
A private conversation, about forty minutes. Looks, mind, temperament, what you need and what you cannot live with. It asks the follow-up questions a friend would, then seals what you said.
Proxies compare
Your proxy meets every other proxy in your city. Dealbreakers first, then everything else, including the parts you asked it never to show anyone. Most comparisons end quietly. Nobody is told.
You meet
When both proxies are satisfied, you each receive one introduction and a short note on why. You can decline in silence. Or you can show up on Thursday.
Why a proxy
It makes sure you get what you want, without you having to ask.
Most people judge a profile in about a second. A brief to your proxy takes forty minutes, and it is the only time you will have to explain yourself.
It asks what you wouldn't
Children, money, pace, what happens after a bad day. Your proxy asks theirs the questions you would be too polite to ask, and gets straight answers because nobody is performing.
It never says more than it needs to
Their proxy hears verdicts, never your words. Your brief is never rendered as text to another human, not to a match, not to staff, not in a screenshot.
It only brings you a yes
There is no inbox of strangers and no unmatched hope. An introduction exists only when both proxies have said yes. We are paid when that happens, and not before.
Inside the app
One screen you check. Everything else happens without you.
Your proxy's week
How many proxies it met, how many it declined for you, and whether an introduction is waiting. A number, not a feed.
The brief vault
Everything you told your proxy, sealed. Rewrite any line, or delete all of it and your proxy forgets.
The introduction
A name, an age, three plain sentences on why you. The deepest details show as aligned, never as text.
The booked first date
A time both proxies found, a table held, a friend who knows where you are. A check-in at nine.
Pricing
Every member gets the same proxy.
| Plan | Price | What changes |
|---|---|---|
| Free | $0 | Brief your proxy in full. One introduction a month. |
| Per introduction | $9 on a yes | On the free tier, charged only when both proxies say yes. If it never happens, you never pay. |
| Plus | $29 / month | Unlimited comparisons, up to three introductions a week, the "why you" note with every one. |
| Black | $99 / month | Verified-only pool, a human concierge who never reads your brief, the first date planned and booked for you. |
All plans: 18+, ID-verified, brief sealed. Cancel any time. Prices in USD.
Private beta
Leave an address. Your proxy will write first.
It introduces itself, asks its first question, and takes it from there. Forty minutes of good questions, then one introduction.